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zwag Mora Newbie
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 12:16 pm Post subject: about a suicide call that still bothers me some |
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I thank God first of all that this situation doesn’t bother me to the point of yelling to the top of my lungs like I did even last year. It still bothers me though. Pray that God will show me though a dream or use someone here or somewhere else who knew the man to tell me maybe what his problem was.
A man called a prayer line saing he wanted to kill himself and he was hoping he’d go to heaven. He didn’t know whehte rhe was saved or not. He said several times that he’d asked the Lord to save him.
He said several times that the Lord wouldn’t come into him. Although he knew salvaiotn wasn’t by works, he completely ignored the very reason it wasn’t. He thought that he couldn’t lose salvatoin so he could kill himself and go to Heaven. So I’m wondering if he did know by faith when he was litle that he was saved, but I’m wondering if through some abusive situation he thought he couldn’t trust anyone anymore. So I wonder if he thought he couldn’t even trust Jesus to come into him but yet thought he couldn’t lose his salvation and so kill himself and go to Heaven. |
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 2:10 pm Post subject: |
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It is horrifically disturbing to hear someone wanting to commit suicide - I think prayers for the man's peace and recovery are a really good idea, but that the rest of it is beyond your control. As you believe in God, I would say - leave it between the poor man and God. _________________ roar like sushi! o0o0o0o0o0o ... |
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 3:02 pm Post subject: thanks for encouragement |
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| Thanks for your encouragement. I call myself doing all I can to do that. I just hope that maybe if the man tried to commit suicide that the Lord didn't let him succede and that he then gained the faith to be saved. |
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Posted: Wed Sep 09, 2009 10:37 am Post subject: Suicide is not the solution.... |
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I have a friend before who is a product of broken family. He is my classmate also during my college days. During those college days, I have noticed that he is always sad and lonely. So one day, I talk to him to open up what was on his mind. He said that he wanted to die. I was surprised by his answer. That time I really try to voice out his problem that keeps bothering him for too long.... I was surprised to hear his main problem. It is about his family. His family has separated for 15 years and both of them have their own partners. He was considered to be a black sheep of the family but I never see that on him. What I see on him was just the reflection of me. A very lonely person who seems nobody could understand except me. I advice him that it is a SIN to commit suicide. And if you die, you are really sure go to hell..... I don't know if he is listening to me or not....
Then one day during our college days, he never attend our classes anymore. That time, our communication is only through land line numbers. So, I called their boarding house, just to find out that he was dead for a week already..... I ask the landlord, what's the cause of death? The landlord said, he was drinking a pesticide. Upon hearing that, I was shocked because I never expect this one to happen. What concludes on my mind was that he was really willing to die whatever the consequences. It was too late for me to see his remains for the last time for it was brought to their hometown immediately after his death.....
I ask myself why him? He has so many talents. He knows how to play guitar and drums. He is very smart in math and most of all, a promising computer programmer. He is the only person I can trust deeply. He knows my problems much worse than him but how come he died in a suicide way? What a waste of life.......  _________________ genalou jajalla
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Posted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 4:56 am Post subject: |
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| maybe your friend lost the trust of anyone around him. If you lost trust, you will feel you are all alone on this battle. There are times i want to commit suicide to , but after that I what will happen to me. This is very sad, I hope people will be inspired and not to kill themselves. For me even though I think of killing myself sometimes, I think suicides or suicidal attempts are acts of being selfish and coward. |
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